Legal Question in Family Law in New York

Child and father caught in the middle!

My brother-in-law is in a predicament. He's close to 20yrs old and has a 1yr old son with a girl who is now 16. She and her parents are often taking advantage of him, because he is constantly getting threatened that they'll turn him in for statuatory rape. He believes that he could get in trouble, so he is afraid to contest them, and that he will never see his son again. They won't even let him take the child alone, anywhere! Is there a possible solution? He feels that he's stuck and that there isn't any hope, so he keeps letting them take advantage of him.


Asked on 3/04/02, 7:48 pm

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John Hayes The Law Office of John M. Hayes

Re: Child and father caught in the middle!

It could be argued that - - all things considered - - the situation your brother-in-law is in is easily recognizable as being one of his own making that he ought to have known, from the start, was potentially very difficult AND one in which he is not really in the best position to claim: "I'm being taken advantage of...".

Here's an indication of just how "perilous" the fellow's situation is with regard to the criminal law: The "ordinary" time frame within which a prosecution for a felony must be begun is 5 years - - except, for a sex offense against someone less than 18 years old, the time does not begin to run until *after* the victim becomes 18 years of age, or after the crime is reported to the authorities (including child welfare), which ever comes first.

So: unless the authorities already know about the unlawful sexual intercourse (you call it 'statutory rape'), if this is a felony, it could "hang fire" for 2 years until she's 18 PLUS the 'standard' 5 years [for a total of 7 years].

An argument could be made for the proposition that your brother-in-law should be content to make himself very small and be very quiet with regard to the girl, her family and the child.

Regards, etc.,

J.M.Hayes

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Answered on 3/04/02, 10:29 pm


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