Legal Question in Family Law in New York
Criteria For Custody
I am unmarried to the father of my 2 y/o son. Our
relationship is always confrontational. I want
separation + custody of my son. Wondering hat is
the most pertinent thing(s) that judges look at
(finances, etc.) AFTER best-interest-of-the-child in
making their determination on granting this to one
parent vs. the other...or does criteria vary from
judge to judge? Would he favor permanent
employment over part-time or self-employed?
Thank you.
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Criteria For Custody
There is no universal criteria. The only absolute is that it must be in the best interest of the children.
I am sorry that I can not be more precise. It is always a facts and circumstances inquiry.
Talk to an attorney about the particulars of your case.
Daniel Clement
Re: Criteria For Custody
When thinking in terms of the "facts & circumstances" inquiry, it is the hard reality that folks often have Perfectly Awful Things to allege against each other & *those* claims and counter-claims become what the court has to try to sort out {bearing in mind that, sometimes, neither the claims nor counter-claims are actually 'true'}.
It is probably still "generally SO" - - all other things being more or less 'equal' - - that mothers have an 'edge', particularly w/re: children as young as 2; particularly if the parties are, essentially, sane, stable & not hurling outlandish accusations against one another.
Good luck.
Regards, etc.,
J.M. Hayes
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