Legal Question in Family Law in New York
my daughter hates going to her fathers house
My daughter is 15 years old and has been disapointed by her father so much that she gives me a hard time anytime his weekend comes. At what age do i have to stop fighting with her and tell her she doesnt have to go
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: my daughter hates going to her fathers house
The legal answer is 18. The moral answer is never.
I would sit and have a talk with the daughter. I would comment that she has a legitimate reason to be angry with a father that constantly disappoints her. However, the daughter must understand that she has only one father and that it is important for her to know her father.
I would also try to have a family meeting with the father and child to attempt to flush out the issues. Maybe the father can see that his continued actions will have a detrimental affect on the child.
Mike.