Legal Question in Family Law in New York

Re: Divorce

You did not provide enough facts to answer your question. For instance, are oyu maintaining the homes pursuant to an order. If you are represented, you should explore your options with your attorney. If not, you should retain one.

Daniel Clement

Re: Divorce

It appears you have been supporting your husband and children in his custody for a period, that may doom you to continue paying for same according to your ability to pay. You have already established the need by your conduct.

However, before discontinuing payments ask your attorney to present this situation to the Court, and get a Temporary Court Order for Support and or Maintence that is more reasonable.

If you unilaterally discontinue the support and payments being paid, you will appear to be acting in "bad faith" and probably find yourself the Respondent in your husband's application for everything he has been getting ( and he would have a good chance for suceeding.)

In sum, Go TO COURT BEFORE YOU MAKE ANY CHANGES.

GOOD LUCK,

Re: Divorce

It does not appear that you are represented by counsel. That is a mistake.

Once he knows ALL the facts, a lawyer will help you strategize (and conclude) the divorce case. You and your son will no longer have to live in a one-bedroom apartment.

Suggest you consult with an experienced matrimonial attorney.

If you wish to schedule a confidential consultation, please give me a call.

FYI - I practice in NYC and Long Island.

Re: Divorce

You do not give enough information. Specifically, you do not state whether you are making any payments to maintain the properties or otherwise support your ex and two children pursuant to court order. You must comply with any existing orders and make an application to abate any responsibilities you cannot meet. You do not have to continue making voluntary payments that you cannot afford. Please call me at 212-367-9167 to discuss your case. I do not charge a fee for the initial consultation.