Legal Question in Family Law in New York

I am sorry for what you are going through. Did you have an attorney help with your partial summary judgment motion? You really s/h legal help here and at the very least, you might want to speak with whoever helped with the PSJM. Also realize a SJM states, in very boiled down, broad terms here, that assuming everything the OPPOSING party says is true, that the movant (here this is you) should receive the following relief: house, mortgage and other house expenses paid, residential custody, all retirement accounts, stocks, free health care for life for all, maintenance of $X, child support of $X, both vehicles... Also remember that the other side can state whatever he/she wants but it does not mean it will happen. It is just part of the attorney doing his job and usually used as a negotiating tactic. Many parties ask for the sun, moon and the stars (such as in my example) despite knowing full well in an equitable distribution state in their cases they will not get all that and perhaps anger the judge, that maybe one gets the moon and a piece of the sun and you split the stars.