Legal Question in Family Law in New York

holidays/visitation

My in laws live 2 hours away. My mother in law has threatened to take me to court for visitation, which was not a problem until a dispute we recently had, but I never denied her visitation. I am hoping that overnight visits are out of the question. How often should grandparents visitation be? My daughter is only 3 years old. And if I never denied her visitation, does she have the right to take me to court? Can I bring up the fact that she lives with someone who she is not married to? And that I disagree with her lifestyle? Including smoking? I do not want my daughter in this environment.


Asked on 5/01/01, 4:22 pm

3 Answers from Attorneys

Re: holidays/visitation

Grandparents have limited statutory

visitation rights. Generally, these

come into play only where there is

a divorce or death and neither parent

is cooperating to allow contact. If the

parents are still together, these rights

won't fly.

This statute is subject to constitutional

challenge similar to US Supreme Court and

the State of Washington, but still has not

been done in NY

Overnights are permitted. It usually occurs

no more than once a month.

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Answered on 6/18/01, 7:14 pm
Amy L. Finch, 845-362-0387 Amy L. Finch, Attorney and Counselor at Law

Re: holidays/visitation

Yes, she can take you to court. But that doesn't necessarily mean she will win. You should try to discuss the matter with her rationally. If you are not able to work things out, retain the services of a family law attorney.

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Answered on 6/19/01, 9:37 am
Kellie Gasink Kellie Gasink, Esq.

Re: holidays/visitation

She must go to court! But you can take action now to short short circuit her legal moves. Give me a call at 212.883.1963 or goto metrospotnyc.com/father and complete the form if you live in the NYC Metro area.

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Answered on 6/18/01, 3:00 pm


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