Legal Question in Family Law in New York
legal seperations
my wife and i have been seperated for a month now. it is not a legal seperation but we have discussed and we want a divorce and someone told me that we need to be legally seperated for a certain amount of time. i guess my question is do we have to be legally seperated for a period of time before we can get a divorce or can we just get a divorce and if we need to be seperated how long do we have to be seperated for, before we can file? thank you
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: legal seperations
Legal separation is _one_ of the routes available for divorce in NYState. It is the nearest thing to a "no fault" divorce that is available in NYState.
Put otherwise, unless the legal separation "mode" is used, a divorce can only be obtained by a lawsuit alleging one or more grounds {such as adultery, fraud, abandonment, cruel & inhuman treatment}.
The "separation" becomes legal by way of a formal Separation Agreement - - this document is designed to spell out and specify the "terms and conditions" under which the parties will live separate and apart - - most significantly, this document details how the marital assets will be divided.
The parties must live 'separate and apart' under the terms of a Separation Agreement for a period in excess of one [1] year {i.e., one year + one day}.
Once that condition is met, another set of papers is drawn and filed with the Court, this set being the formal paperwork asking the Court to grant a divorce, based upon the Separation Agreement & the passage of the necessary amount of time.
A couple can obtain a divorce in less than the one year time frame of the legal separation, but it means filing a lawsuit seeking divorce based on sworn-to allegations of some "fault" {e.g., adultery; cruel & inhuman treatment, etc.}. If the "alleged wrong-doer" consents to the divorce, it can be completed within a matter of a few months {depending on where you're located}.
Regards, etc.,
J. M. Hayes
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Re: legal seperations
You can file for an uncontested divorce now.
It is not necessary to first be separated for a year.