Legal Question in Family Law in New York

Parental Abduction in NYC

I have a young toddler. His father has threatened

in past argument to ''take him''. I am still uneasy

ever since his threat about 1.5 years ago. We are

unmarried in NYC, although his name is on the

birth certif. I read somewhere that in some cases

of parental abductions, the mother has more

rights if the parents are unmarried but it varies

from state-to-state. If he did take my son out of NY

state or USA, and because I dont have legal or

sole custody and because we are unmarried - am

I automatically more entitled to my son?? I read

that if he DID take our son, because he is his

legal father and his name is on the birth certif -

that there would be no penalties because he is

his father and there is no law against him taking

him. Please enlighten me. I dont even know

where to START digging for this sort of

information. What can I do to protect my son from

parental abduction. There is a history of domestic

violence, I kicked him out of my apartment, there

is a limited order of protection currently in place

which is up for renewal this Sept 12. Is there

anything I will be asked in that renewal process

that I could initiate regarding parental abduction?


Asked on 9/04/01, 10:19 am

3 Answers from Attorneys

Bunji Fromartz Fromartz Law Offices

File in Family Court Immediately

If you have serious concern that you child may be abducted or removed from New York State without your permission you must file with the family court for an order limiting the removal of your child.

Go immediately to a lawyer or, if you cannot afford one, go to family court file for custody and ask for an emergency order stopping the childs removal. If you go to family court without a lawyer because you cannot aford one, ask for a lawyer to be appointed, you will be provided with one!

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Answered on 10/09/01, 11:56 am
Kellie Gasink Kellie Gasink, Esq.

Re: Parental Abduction in NYC

Your boyfriend may not legally abduct your child.

You need an enforceable custody and visitation order. Please contact me 212.883.1963.

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Answered on 10/05/01, 9:48 am
John Hayes The Law Office of John M. Hayes

Re: Parental Abduction in NYC

If you cannot afford to hire an attorney:

You do need to file a petition in the Family Court asking for a ruling on custody.

You do need to go to the Family Court in the borough where you live to do this. If possible, you should arrive at the court at the start of the day's work - 9 a.m.

You *can* do this yourself - - clerks at the Family Court will help you with the paperwork. It is not complicated.

You will have an opportunity to request that an attorney be assigned to represent you, free of charge.

You should do this sooner, not later.

Regards, etc.,

J. M. Hayes

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Answered on 10/05/01, 11:04 am


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