Legal Question in Family Law in New York

What you get for making whoopie

Let me see if I can ease your mind in fewest possible number of words:

Not a one of the 'worst case scenarios' that you are fretting over is actually going to happen. Case would only go to court & you be required to testify if Hsb. sued for divorce on grounds of adultery, named you as co-respondent & wife contested the divorce. Whether it is evidence of how enlightened we've become @ brink of millenium, or testament to how close to perdition we all are, not much attention paid anymore to adultery _vis_a_vis_ custody, unless, mbbe, spouse is having the affair in dingy "S&M" clubs, bringing the children along & video-taping it for commercial public exhibition. Likelihood of finding a prosecuting office the least bit interested in pursuing criminal charges of adultery somewhere less than "nil"; in fact, I'd have to go to more trouble than it's worth to check to see if its still on the books in NY.

Happier Holidays?

Regadz, etz.,

jmhze

-> these musings are, you know, just a "seat-of-the-pants" analysis & are NOT intended to be construed as / understood as / utilized as Legal Advice & Counsel <-