Legal Question in Family Law in New York
Serving the Divorce Papers
I used a process server to serve my husband, but they made 3 attempts and could not do it. Since I cannot afford to keep paying process servers and don't have months to contact everyone in creation, and I do know his address, I was wondering if it is legal in Nassau County, NY to serve him by certified mail, since he'll have to sign for it?
4 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Serving the Divorce Papers
You are going to need to make a motion to the court for alternative service. You will need your process server's affidavit as to his attempts at personal service. If the motion is granted, you will serve in accordance with the court's order. You probably cannot do this yourself, and should consult with counsel with regards to this application for alternative service.
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Re: Serving the Divorce Papers
This is not unusual. The solution is to use an alternative form of service.
In this circumstance, the typical action is to petition the copurt for an opportunity to 'serve by publication'.
It's not complicatted. You are welcome to a consultation for no fee where I can give you the details. Email is best for making an appointment.
Re: Serving the Divorce Papers
NO. Without a Court Order, You cannot "Serve" Notice of your Divorce, upon your spouse, by any other means, than Personal Service.
If possible, you might consider asking your spouse to accept Service. Please note, A Spouse may sign a Defendant Affidavit,before a notary. Which Affidvait can evidence receipt of the Divorce Notice and Complaint, without Defendant admitting, consenting or agreeing to any of the relief requested.
Good luck,
Re: Serving the Divorce Papers
No, you can NOT serve by certfied mail. Need personal service for a divorce.