Legal Question in Family Law in New York
Sexual Abuse, Unsupervised and custody
I am 15 years old. My father sexually abused me when I
was 3 years old. He is constantly bringing my mother to
court and demanding unsupervised visits with him. It
was court ordered that i go to counseling with him last
year. While there I told him that I no longer wanted to
see or speak to him again. three days ago My mom got
papers from his lawyer saying that he wants
unsupervized visits with me, to take away the child
support checks.I have told many people about my
feelings for my dad and it seems as though they view
me unimportant. I wanted to know what my rights are
as a 15 year old and if somehow I could get some tips
on how to move foward with this case. The court date is
in Febuary and I need closure from my past and the
only way to do this is by winning this case and them
hearing what I have to say. i want to be prepared and
confident that the judge and jury with respect me as an
american citizen.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: Sexual Abuse, Unsupervised and custody
Realistically, your father cannot force you to see him after you reach the age of 14. I suggest you go to court with your mother on the return date and make your feelings known. If the court does not want to hear you directly, you can hire your own lawyer. If you cannot afford one, ask that the court give you an attorney of your choosing or to appoint one to speak for you.