Legal Question in Family Law in New York

visitation and child support

I am a divorced father of 2 boys,12 & 10 with joint custody.Boys reside with me.In divorce agreement ex-wife took boys couple hours twice a week and every other weekend and 2 weeks in summer. She pays $173 bi-weekly in child support. About a year ago she re-married and moved to Tn. Said she is making $4 less an hr and wants to reduce payment to $125 bi-weekly. also wants to take kids 1 month over summer and not pay support during this time. Can she do this without changing divorce agreement? Can I find her wage to see if she is truthful? Could kids support be reduced if she is making less? Hasn't she violated terms of agreement already by not seeing kids since she is out of state? What to do next? Advice? Thanks!!


Asked on 2/21/09, 9:42 am

2 Answers from Attorneys

Re: visitation and child support

The current order of support remains in place until it is changed by a new court order. If your ex wife wishes to pay less support, she will need to petition the court for a reduction.

J. Douglas Barics

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Answered on 2/22/09, 1:58 pm

Re: out-of-state ex-wife and child support

The first thing to understand is that, unlike most of the other terms of your divorce agreement, child support can be changed. This is in part because of the State interest in the welfare of children and also because the children themselves were not parties to the divorce.

If your ex-wife had good reason to relocate out-of-state then the fact that she was unable to spend as much time with the children as a result will not usually be held against her. If you seek to modify child support, it is possible for you and your ex-wife to reach an agreement regarding the modification.

If you cannot agree, there is a legal process available to you. During this process you are entitled to confirm her income.

If your ex-wife is earning less, this will be considered, however, that she is not caring for your children as often will also be considered. How often she has the children is important because during that time she is housing and feeding them, etc. If she has the children less often, you have more costs and, thus, this may favor additional support. So, it is possible that one factor (less income) may be offset, at least in part, by another (less time caring for the children).

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Answered on 2/21/09, 10:26 am


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