Legal Question in Family Law in New York
visitation
My current custody agreement doesn't have a distance limit on my ex-wife, however, she has moved 100 miles away creating a hardship on me. We have joint custody with her having physical custody. The hardship is in the form of limiting my interaction with my children regarding school, sporting, and other events, as well as interfering with 1 day type visits agreed upon i.e., my birthday. I have other children that live with me and trying to shuttle between events over 100 miles is impossible. As an aside my ex-wife failed to mention this move prior to actually making it. She also has mentioned she may move further in the future. Do I have any recourse such as requiring her to transport for visitation both ways? Currently the agreement is to split transportation.
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: visitation
Unfortunately, you need to take her to court. Interference with visitation is very serious, and can result in a change in custody of the children.
In this situation, I would suggest you get an attorney. These types of custody battles can be tricky, and you will do well to have a skilled advocate. If you cannot afford an attorney, you can ask the court for an assigned attorney. There are income restrictions on an assigned attorney which the court will make clear to you.
Re: visitation
You need to bring the issue to court sooner rather than later.
If you have the means to hire an attorney, you should do so.
If you don't, you should at least find out whether the local bar association in the county where you live has a referral program.
Through such a program you should be able to arrange for an initial consultation, at least, with an attorney experienced in family law issues at a nominal expense.
You can file the necessary petition, yourself, with the aid of the staff at the Family Court.
In my estimation, what you need to try to achieve in court is a "clarifying review" {there is no such thing, as a formal matter} of the letter and spirit of the order.
It is not likely you can get an order obliging her to move back; but you can, with luck & skill, get the court to look at the 'sense' of the order and get clarification as to a pre-notice requirement before any future move & perhaps some relief w/ transportation.
In my estimation {not everyone would agree with this} the way your petition is drafted & presented has a significant bearing on how it is received and considered. Put otherwise, to accomplish this kind of 'review' and 'clarification' - - depending on the particular judge - - it makes a difference How You Ask for it.
So, if you can, *do* consult with an attorney.
Good luck.
Regards, etc.,
J. M. Hayes
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