Legal Question in Family Law in New York

visitation under a divorce decree

can visitation arrangements (ie sleepovers) be modified in the event of the non-custodial parents failure to maintain a stable residence? In my case when the original divorce decree was signed, the non-custodial parent had a stable residence. He and his girlfriend lost the apartment and now live with relatives of the girlfriend. The girlfriend has four children of her own. I have no idea who they live with and more importantly the non-custodial father has no control over who comes in and out of the home and I have no idea what my children are being exposed to.

I know that he is entitled to visitation as set forth in the divorce decree, however must my four children be required to sleepover in a setting with strangers whom I do not know and who are total strangers to my children?


Asked on 4/15/07, 8:34 pm

3 Answers from Attorneys

Phroska L. McAlister PHROSKA LEAKE McALISTER

Re: visitation under a divorce decree

Parents living in homeless shelters can and often do have full custody of their children.

So, in most cases, absent a Non Custodial parent's living environment, being deemed by a Court, as unsafe or unhealthy for children to VISIT, a Court is unlikely to modify visitation arrangements, merely on grounds that the Non Custodial parent frequently changes residence and lives with "strangers."

Good luck,

Good luck,

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Answered on 4/16/07, 1:21 pm
Tracey Bloodsaw Law Office of Tracey A. Bloodsaw

Re: visitation under a divorce decree

Absolutely not. One major condition of any visitation is that the noncustodial parent has a suitable and stable environment for the children to visit and sleepover. You can certainly petition the court for modification of the order based on those change in circumstances. You can visit my website for a free consultation at www.traceyabloodsaw.com

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Answered on 4/15/07, 9:18 pm
Anthony Colleluori The Law Offices of Anthony J. Colleluori & Associates PLLC

Re: visitation under a divorce decree

You have raised serious questions which have no right or wrong answer. The issues would have to be decided by a court which would look at it from a "best interest of the child" standpoint.

On your side are the arguments you have posited,

On the Father's side, there are the issue of his ability to care and protect his children and the need for them to have him in their lives.

Another issue may be the age of your children.

If they were moving into Gracie mansion, the issue would be clearer than if they are moving into a tenement in the projects where there are drug dealers and killers.

See a lawyer and file for a visitation modification. Speak to the father. Can he afford to get to an apartment if you agree to forego a few support payments? Can you afford that? Is his new family eligible for some type of government program? Social workers at the family court can possibly help and will be more willing if there is a lawyer involved.

You seem like a concerned parent who is willing to put the needs of her children first, keep them uppermost in your goals and the answers should come.

Good Luck.

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Answered on 4/15/07, 9:56 pm


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