Legal Question in Wills and Trusts in New York
Why separate wills for spouses?
Why do spouses need separate wills? A lawyer friend of mine told me that this was what my wife and I should do, but would not give me much of an explanation as to why.
4 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Why separate wills for spouses?
Generally spouses will make reciprocal wills. In situations where each spouse wishes to make a different disposition of property upon their death, it is less confusing to have separate wills.
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Re: Why separate wills for spouses?
Simply, you may pass at different times. However, you can simplify this matter by having your attorney make out each primary beneficiary as the spouse and have specific bequests only if the spouse is not available.
Simply, get one will and make 2 copies. Fill in the husband as the maker and the wife as beneficiary. Then fill in the wife as the maker and the husband as beneficiary in the other copy.
Have the rest of the wills identical and have the same people inheriting if both of you have passed.
That will cut your costs. (just make sure they are both witnessed properly).
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Re: Why separate wills for spouses?
While typically spouses will have identical dispositions of their estates, having a joint Will (which can be done) eliminates the flexibility needed for the surviving spouse. For example: family situations could change (grandchildren could survive their parents, someone could become incapacitated, afterborn children could not be named), people named as executors or trustees could no longer be available to serve, tax laws could change and the ability to adapt to the changes could be lost. There is also the possibility of remarriage and new children. If the Will makers are young, so that a remarriage is possible, but a new spouse is not to be included in the first spouses planning, I usually recommend an irrevocable trust be used in conjunction with a Will. This document can be rather flexible, but also protect assets from going to a new family that had not be in existance or going to people not desired. There are many considerations and using an attorney who can describe a broad picture of possible subsequent events and how to deal with them should be used, to assure that regardless of who dies first or second, all plans can be carried out.
Re: Why separate wills for spouses?
Everyone should have their own will.
Daniel Clement