Legal Question in Family Law in North Carolina
Child Custody/Visitation after death of Guardian Parent
As the guardian parent of my two young boys I wanted to know what I would need to do to show my wishes for their custody/visitation if I die before they reach 18? I am remarried and my boys have two sisters that I do not want them to be seperated from. Thank you for all of your help.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: Child Custody/Visitation after death of Guardian Parent
You should have an attorney draft your will. If you have a relatively small estate an attorney could use the will to indicate your choice of a guardian.
I am assuming that you meant to state that you are the "primary residential parent". Generally, then your ex will get legal custody absent a court order terminating his/her parental rights. At the time of your death, even if you designated a guardian, as long as your ex still had joint custody, regardless of your will, your ex will likely gain full custody over the children.
You should schedule a formal consultation with a lawyer. A good means of obtaining an attorney referral is by contacting your State's bar association or your local county bar association. They probably have a web site and charge a nominal fee for the referral. Most attorneys either provide a free initial consultation, or charge a nominal fee.
Good Luck, Elliot Jay Goldstein (Attorney with offices in Tampa and St. Petersburg)
The above information is provided as a courtesy, without any consideration and without knowledge of the specific facts. Do not rely on this information. Seek a formal consultation with an attorney.