Legal Question in Family Law in North Dakota

My wife was verbally, emotionally, and sexually abused through her childhood and early adulthood. Unfortunately she never reported any of this at the time, although she has had therapy as an adult. Now we have a child and my in-laws are complaining they don't get to see our child often enough. There have been thinly veiled threats about "grandparent rights" and possible legal action on my in-laws' part. Can my in-laws sue us and win court ordered visitation? As you can tell by the family history we never want to leave our child alone with them.


Asked on 5/17/10, 1:45 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys

Ross Brandborg Brudvik Law Office

Below is the statute that controls this. It is possible for them to sue for visitation, but you would have a good case to contest their visitation.

14-09-05.1. Grandparental rights of visitation to unmarried minor child - Mediation

or arbitration.

1. The grandparents and great-grandparents of an unmarried minor child may be

granted reasonable visitation rights to the child by the district court upon a finding

that visitation would be in the best interests of the child and would not interfere with

the parent-child relationship.

2. The court shall consider the amount of personal contact that has occurred between

the grandparents or great-grandparents and the child and the child's parents.

3. This section does not apply to agency adoptions or when the child has been adopted

by a person other than a stepparent or grandparent. Any visitation rights granted

under this section before the adoption of the child may be terminated upon the

adoption if termination of the rights is in the best interest of the child.

4. An application for visitation rights under this section may be considered by the

district court in conjunction with a divorce proceeding involving the parent of the

minor child. If any district court of this state retains jurisdiction over the residential

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placement of the minor child or children by virtue of any prior proceedings, the rights

conferred by this section may be enforced by the grandparents or the

great-grandparents through motion under the prior proceeding. If no district court

otherwise has jurisdiction, a proceeding to enforce grandparental rights may be

brought against the parent having primary residential responsibility as a civil action

and venued in the county of residence of the minor child.

5. The district court may require mediation of the matter under chapter 14-09.1. If

mediation fails and if the mediator agrees, the court may order the dispute arbitrated

by the person who attempted mediation. Joinder of grandparents or of

great-grandparents awarded visitation rights under this section must occur in any

proceeding to terminate parental rights.

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Answered on 5/24/10, 1:02 pm


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