Legal Question in Family Law in Oklahoma

In your question you did not say how you gained custody of your son or whether your have full, shared or joint custody. If any of these have been established by and through a court of law, she would be in violation of a Court Order.

However, you did say that you had executed a divorce so it is assumed that you have taken this matter to a court of law and she was ordered to pay child support which she apparently violated. This court is where [where the divorce was executed] is where you can remedy the situation and is our recommended that you report these violations to the court and/or seek an order of relief or full custody of the child due to abandonment. I hope this helps.