Sick Elderly Woman refuses to seek medical help
My mother is 68 and in bad health. My father recently pasted away. My sister and I moved her from California to Oregon after his dealth. She now resides with my sister. She refuses to have papers drawn up (guardianship, will or anything). Nor will she sign anything. She thinks everyone is after her money. The Big question is more of a medical one. If no one is appointed guardian of her, if something happens medically and she refuses to get medical help. What can be done? His sister does not want to have her mother served papers. What worst case senario might his sister be faced with. (This so, we can let her know).
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Re: Sick Elderly Woman refuses to seek medical help
Hello -
Your situation is not an unusual one. When a person fails
to plan for illness, the end result is often the need for
a court appointed guardian. A family member or state social
services may need to step in and petition the court for
appointment to deal with your mother's medical situation.
You should remember that as long as she has mental
capacity, she is entitled to refuse medical help.
If she ceases to have mental capacity, then a
court appointed guardian will be able to make those
decisions.
The process for appointing a guardian requires a
filing with the local court, 14 days notice (includng
serving papers on your mother) and a court
appointed visitor who will make a recommendation to
the court whether your mother needs a guardian. Your
mother will also have the right to object to the
appointment of a guardian. As you can guess, this can be
an expensive process. If a guardian is appointed,
these costs can be paid from your mother's money. If
the court does not appoint a guardian, the costs would
be born by the person applying for the guardianship.
You might want to discuss an Advance Directive with
your mother. This only appoints someone to make medical
decisions, has nothing to do with money. Most doctors
and hospitals have copies of this form, which needs to
be signed in front of witnesses and the persons
appointed to make these decisions also need to sign the
document.
This is not specific legal advice, which can only be given
after a full examination of your specific circumstances.
Our office often helps elders and their families
deal with advance directives, guardianship, conservatorship
and estate matters. Please give us a call for a low
cost initial consultation.