Legal Question in Elder Law in Pennsylvania

Re: Oldest child responsibilities?

Good for you for taking the first step.

Some attorneys, including myself, actually specialize in this area which is called Elder Law. There is no law which dictates which child must take control for a parent. And unfortunately the state agency will not take control as long as the elder person is competent. Even then, do you really want a state agency caring for your mother?

You are right that she needs to take care of these matters. If she doesn't then the default is usually the worst of all the choices.

A good elder law attorney can explain the options to your mother and your family. Elder persons often need to hear the advice from a "professional." And they often just try to avoid these issues as it seems to confront the inevitable.

There are many resources on the net regarding Elder Law but they all point to getting an attorney to guide you. While many documents are available for free or low cost, as usual, you get what you pay for. There are often gaps and missteps that are made.

I'd be happy to meet to go over the options that should be examined and talk about what can be done to prepare. The problem, as you noticed, is that the children all feel there should be a different management of the elder person's care.

Contact me, or another attorney who specializes in Elder Law, to discuss this matter. I would be happy to discuss this or any other legal matter with you.

I wish you and your mother the best.

Regards,

Roger Traversa

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