Legal Question in Family Law in Pennsylvania
Family Problem
I need help with a family situation in
PA. My great aunt is 84, her only
daughter is in her 50's, and on
numerous meds for depression and
bipolar disorder. The last year
or so, her boyfriend of 20plus years
has changed and has become very
mean to her. He has ruined his credit
with bad purchases, and is now
having my cousin purchase things in
her name, pay off billls etc.... simply
because she 'can't say no' to people.
When she tries to stick up for
herself, he becomes very mean and
threatens her. Because of her
current mental state, is there
anything I can do to help her?
Is there any law or code that can
help me HELP HER? Shes taking care
of an elderly mother, and she has no
idea of right or wrong right now.
Should I have power of attny for
her? He has taken them down to
their last $8K for my Aunt's burial.
Please help!
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: Family Problem
A power of attorney will not work, as that would not give you the power to keep her from making any bad financial decisions. A guardianship would work, but you would have to prove that she is "incompetent". This would include a court hearing, including testimony from a doctor that your cousin is mentally unable to take care of her financial affairs, which is a very heavy burden to prove. Also, since you are in Virginia, you might want to find a closer relative, as it is better for a guardian to live close to the person being taken care of.