Legal Question in Family Law in Pennsylvania

Re: want to seperate

You asked about getting out of relationship.

The relationship you describe may or may not be considered a common-law marriage. Depending on which side I represented I could make a satisfactory argument.

In my humble opinion, it sounds like the two of you are very mature and want to split amicably. I would suggest you speak with an attorney (preferably one attorney each) and draw up a dissolution contract (including a quit claim). You each should walk away from the relationship with that which you rightly consider yours. Moreover, you each should split the equity and appreciation in the value of the household. There are arguments to be made for either side of that argument.

The biggest argument about reaching an amicable resolution is that in a fight, neither of you will win and you will both become bitter. Better that you split amicably and cherish the good times.

I've even heard of some couples having a "divorce" party to demonstrate to their friends (and themselves) that the relationship is ending a healthy and natural ending.

Good luck and best wishes.

Regards,

Roger