Legal Question in Civil Litigation in Pennsylvania

want to moved son out of the house

Hi,

I have son 32 yrs old, 5 yrs ago he living an other state, then he lost his job, he aking my wife and I let him moving back, we're OK I give ticket airplane to movimg back home, 3 months later he got a job $60K a year, work for 1 yr he plan to move out, we not stop him, and the he change his mind not to move out, then he started not take a shower everyday then start getting rast on his skin and broken out look like a monter, getting hair too long, and falls all over the house my vaccum get stucted with his hair, he start get excuise from work and work at home thru internet, he play on line game all day long beside his work , sleep at day play and work all night long not going out and eat at night when we're sleep, company he work for fired him, now he have no job no money, keep looking onle job can be work at home so he don't have go to office to work, seem to be very hard to get job like that, he start depending on us, our salarys just enought for 2 of us and I have 3 more year to retired, he take my basement to put his computer for work and very dirty, all trash, food and many thing like dumpter, I asking him couple times moving out but he don't. any advive ? can I call Police for help put him out of my house ? Please help


Asked on 11/01/08, 7:59 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys
Roger Traversa Arjont Group (Law Office of Roger Traversa)

Re: want to moved son out of the house

You asked about a son that refuses to leave the nest.

The first thing is to see if you can convince him to see a metal health professional. There are issues there than I'm certain you are must suspect. You and your wife must also seek professional help as this process has been and will be traumatic on you and your wife.

The next issue is to get him to vacate your home. The only means to legally do so is to get him to leave voluntarily or evict him. Your best course of action is to hire a local attorney to handle this for you. The attorney can provide guidance to you and can authoritatively communicate with your son and the courts. If things escalate then the attorney is best prepared to act in your best interest to protect you and your property.

This isn't something you can or should attempt to do on your own. Enlist as many people as possible, including mental health professionals, persons from your local mental health organizations, a social worker and your attorney.

This won't be free but it should be less expensive than continuing as you are.

Regards,

Roger

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Answered on 11/02/08, 3:27 pm


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