Legal Question in Family Law in South Carolina
Name change of a minor - named by mom on birth certificate
I recently moved to NY with my husband of 2 years. Before we were married, I had a son. I never married or lived with his father, nor is is name on the birth certificate. He has no visitation rights, nor has he ever requested them. Foolishly I listed my son's last name as his father's. Is there anyway to change it on the birth certificate- to my maiden name or my married name? Or can I request that my son be called a different last name at schools, doctor's offices, etc.? Thank you.
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Name change of a minor - named by mom on birth certificate
You are moving in the wrong direction. What you have failed to consider is that if anything ever happened to you, your husband would have no rights to custody of your son. Also, the biological father may show up at any time, claiming that you concealed the boy from him, etc.
Suggest you consider a step-parent adoption, whereby your husband will become the legal father of your son. Your husband will then have the same custody [and child support] rights as any parent.
Once the adoption is finalized, you will receive a NEW birth certificate which will have your HUSBAND'S name on it.
Hope this helps.
Re: Name change of a minor - named by mom on birth certificate
The answer is yes. You can do a change of name if you want to change the name of your son to your maiden name. If however you want your son to have the same name as your husband, then you and your husband should consider having your husband adopt your son. I would need to know more information from you to determine how quickly this can be done. Alot would depend upon whether or not the birth father had notice of your son's birth. His consent may be required for the adoption unless his rights have already been terminated. Also keep in mind, each county differs in their requirements for adoption.