Legal Question in Family Law in Texas
Child custody and child visitation
To make a long story short, I had my son when I was 17 and the father's name is on the birth certificate, but the father of my son has popped in and out of his life and in 4 years his father has only been there for 10 months (off and on), he is in to alot of bad things and is now married and has another child and lives out of state. He has never paid me child support. What are the chances of him getting visitation or even custody? Does he have any rights to my son? Will he half to take me to court to get rights? What chance does he have of getting visitation to my son?
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: Child custody and child visitation
Wow! In one short sentence, you asked a very powerful question. I highly recommend that you sit down with an attorney and go over the details of your case in greater depth.
I will now attempt to answer your question based on the brief facts you gave. Please be advised that my answer is based on what you have said and after talking with you I might change my answer.
It sounds as if you want to go after him for child support. If that is the case, please be advised that he will also be entitled to visitation. Initally, the visitation will be set up so the child can get to know his father with the intent of gradually moving to a Standard Possession Order. In fact, in Texas visitation and child support are mutally exclusive. That means that even if he never pays child support he is still entitled to visits with his child.
Regarding his prior bad acts, how long ago did these occur? The Judge will look at his behavior during the past year or two. If he has been "clean" during that period, the judge will possibly ignore his prior bad behavior. If he sexually molested a child, for example, my answer might be different and I would ask for supervised visits only.
Regarding custody, based on the fact that he has no contact with the child, the chance of his getting custody is slim. However, if you do something bad (like go to jail) the father of the child will move to the head of the line -- if he is even interested.
Please be advised that just putting his name on the birth certificate is NOT proof he is the father.
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