Legal Question in Family Law in Texas
I want to get my divorce going but i don't know where to start off or how to do this? I've been separated since December 15,2010 and i haven't had any type of contact with my ex since august 2011. At the same time that was the last time he ever saw our 1 1/2 yr old daughter he never helped economically and doesn't want to do anything with me or her. He changed his phone number and has never tried to contact me afterwards. I want to get divorced and get my child's custody but i don't know what to do or how to get started? I work full time and my mother takes care of my daughter while i work i also live with my mother. Please help me i just want the best for my child. Another thing about her father i also have pictures of him being with other women since we got married and him telling other women he loved them or him drinking. I wanted to wait and see if we could work things out and get back together but its been since august 2011 the last time i ever had some sort of communication with him.
1 Answer from Attorneys
I'm sorry you've had so many problems with your husband, but I'm glad you at least have your mom's support and steady employment and housing--those factors both help make your life a lot easier and should make getting good custody terms easier as well. You'll need to file a divorce petition, along with what's called a SAPCR ("Suit Affecting Parent-Child Relationship"), which will ask the court to decide custody, visitation and support, as well as determine various parental rights and responsibilities such as who can take your daughter to the doctor, decide her religious training, decide where she'll go to school, etc. The next step will be finding him to get him served or to file a waiver of service. If you can't do that, the situation will get more complicated and expensive, because if there's any possible way to do it, the court's going to require he get notice. Given that your daughter's well-being is involved, you really do need to have an attorney to help you figure all this out. The rules and law are more complicated than most people think, and one little misstep that you don't even know you're making can mean that you lose important rights for no good reason. Good luck--I hope this all works out well for you and your daughter.