Legal Question in Family Law in Texas

Can I leave the State?

My husband and I are currently talking divorce. If we divorce, I'll have to go back to work to help support our 2 boys. I told him since I have no family/friends in Texas, I would have to move to California so that my family could watch the boys rather than daycare. He said he won't let me go. What will the courts say about that? In the interim, I'd like to take my boys to visit my sister and stay for about a month, but my husband does not want me to. Can I do it anyway or is that considered kidnapping and used against me in a custody case?


Asked on 12/13/01, 1:51 am

2 Answers from Attorneys

Fran Brochstein Attorney & Mediator

Re: Can I leave the State?

Based on your question, it does not sound like there is a court of continuing jurisdiction over the minor children. I am basing my answer on that assumption.

If there is no court order saying otherwise, then both parents have equal rights to the children. Therefore, you can go visit your sister and it would not be considered kidnapping.

Please be advised that if you leave Texas it takes a number of months for you to qualify for residency in another state. I have no idea what California's laws are about establishing residency. You would need to talk to a CA attorney. (You need to be a resident to file for divorce.)

Be advised, however, that your husband can file for divorce in Texas while you are gone.

Therefore, it might be best to file in Texas.

You need to be aware that the Texas courts are allowing parents to restrict the residency of the children to the county they are currenting living in and counties around it.

Texas allows limited alimony - usually if you have been married over 10 years - for example.

If you live in the Houston area, please feel free to give me a call at 713-847-6000. Be sure to let me know that you found me on lawguru.com

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Answered on 12/13/01, 3:07 am
Darren Schraeder Schraeder Law Office

Re: Can I leave the State?

If you live in Dallas County, there is a domicile restriction imposed on every case. Other North Texas counties have requirements if you leave, like paying all of the travel costs to get the children back to Dad for his visits. I am not sure that a court will be swayed by daycare costs in allowing you to move so far away. You might be able to demonstrate that the actual costs of keeping your children here requires more child support. Alimony is rare and limited. You must not have enough money to meet your minimum reasonable needs. Almost any job that you have will meet this requirement. If you live in North Texas, feel free to give me a call at (972) 481-7990.

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Answered on 12/13/01, 8:01 am


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