Legal Question in Civil Litigation in Texas

Some work that way, others don't. Offering to schedule the delivery is a courtesy. If you decline, the process server will try to find other ways to do her job. You risk being served at a time and place that turns out to be particularly bad for you -- say, at a family wedding or in the office surrounded by your co-workers. Most process servers won't deliberately embarrass the person they're serving, but that often ends up happening anyway.