Legal Question in Discrimination Law in Utah

Re: Male name change

I assume that when you married each of you took the other's last name and added it to your former names, so you became (for example) "Smith-Jones'. There is probably no logical reason other than people are used to our convention of a woman taking a man's name, but not the reverse. Return to the DMV and talk to a supervisor. Make them give you a reason based on the Utah Statutes as to why they don't want to make the change.

It is not sexual discrimination for which there is a legal recourse, as it is defined in the law - just bureaucratic nonsense.