Legal Question in Family Law in Utah
Guardianship or adoption
my friend and her husband have two
children. they both use drugs and
drink alcohol. they have separated
the mother living with me with the
children and the father moving in
with his parents. the children are
currently legally in states custody.
the mother has moved out of my
apartment and has left the children
with me. i have been taking them to
appointments to get registered for
head start and daycare so i could
work. i am the only one paying for
the rent, utilities, and food and
supplies for the children and house.
the children call me mom all the time
and will run to me rather than the
mother or father. i need to know how
and who i talk to to get guardianship
or if i have any legal right to adopt
them as my own. i need it so i could
take care of all the problems i have
without needing the mothers help
because neither of the parents will
help me with out throwing a fit like i
ask too much of them.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: Guardianship or adoption
You can either apply to the court for guardianship or to adopt them. I suggest you start with the guardianship, which is easier and gives you all of the legal rights to care for the children. Then apply to adopt (these can be done as part of a single court action.)