Legal Question in Family Law in Virginia
Child Support
The father of my 3 children & myself, have an agreement that is not filed with the court, that he pays $450/month and sees the children every other weekend. The arrangement was fine until I decided to return to work and felt that he should be responsible for 1/2 of the child care expenses. He refuses to even discuss the increase in support, and claims that my current husband and I should be responsible for all child care costs (the father is also married now). I didn't realize that my current husband's income is factored into child support, and should I seek restituation from the court system?
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Child Support
Under the Virginia Child Support Guidelines shared incomes formula for determining child support, the income of the nonliable spouse of a responsible person or parent is not factored into the formula for calculating the total support owed(normally) by the parents and the share which is apportioned to each. The father of your three children is simply wrong in his assertion that you and your current(nonliable) spouse should be responsible for all of your children's child care costs.
You may need to file a petition with the juvenile and domestic relations district court in your area to have a court order entered to settle this matter which will correctly assess who is responsible for what in this child support equation and which later, if necessary, can be appropriately enforced through the court(without the aid of an attorney) should later disputes arise.
Re: Child Support
Your husbands income is not factored into child support. You cannot get restitution if there is no prior Order. He will be responsible under the guidelines for his income share of any child care and health care expenses. You can do child support calculations online at childsupportguidelines.com and research the Virginia Code Section 20-108.2 on child support.