Legal Question in Family Law in Virginia

I am divorced and have three kids the custody arrangments are every other weekend but she lets them come every weekend because the kids start asking to come back as soon as they go with there mom on Sunday. Whenever I pick them up or try to go to any school programs she starts cussing my girlfriend ( We have been together for a year and are getting married in 7 months) out and acting a fool. There mother has recently had a baby with her boyfriend but still continues to yell and cuss at my fiance and I. My Fiance never says anything rude in return and tries to stay out of it but it is becoming to much. My ex-wife is still trying to control me and she is using the kids to do it I don't know what to do I don't have much money and I feel helpless. I can't stop going to school functions and the kids love my fiance but there mother is making them choose and embarrising them. Its not fair to the kids and I don't know how to help they have to listen to people bad mouthing the ones they love and my eight year old gets mad and tells me I am tired of her questioning me The best advice I could give her was just to say she didn't know and try to go play and change the subject that is not advice I should have to give to an eight year old little girl


Asked on 10/05/12, 6:35 am

1 Answer from Attorneys
Michael Hendrickson Law Office Michael E. Hendrickson

Although, you appear to have merely posted commentary on your domestic

situation rather than a question to be answered, the situation you've described

would appear to reduce to whether the mother of these children has specifically

violated one or more provisions of the court's order involving custody/visitation, but from your generalized comments on the matter, there's really no way to make such a determination in a reasonably definitive manner (in my opinion).

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Answered on 10/07/12, 1:07 pm


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