Legal Question in Family Law in Virginia

Foster Parents

We have been foster parents to a male child for the past 11 months. His mother signed an entrustment to the local dss in Nov. stating that she wished the child to remain with the foster family since he has become attached to us. The young man she named as the father has spent the past 11 months declaring the child to be not his and asking for dna and blood matches. Two weeks ago it was confirmed that the child is his and now his parents are pushing him to get custody, for which he has filed. Can we as foster parents do anything legally to stop this from happening since the child was born in Virginia and the young man and his parents are from Missouri? If we file a petition for custody what would we need to make our case?


Asked on 2/15/01, 1:15 pm

3 Answers from Attorneys

Michael Hendrickson Law Office Michael E. Hendrickson

Re: Foster Parents

Before you rush out and hire a lawyer, you would be well advised to discuss the matter with the DSS

and their attorney(if you haven't already done so), as they would (apparently) still have legal

custody of the child. MH

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Answered on 4/04/01, 11:51 pm
Glenn R. Tankersley Regency Legal Clinic

Re: Foster Parents

I suggest you file a petition for custody in the Juvenile & Domestic Relations Court for the city/county where the child resides. You didn't say where the father had filed but the city/county where the child resides should be the proper venue for all petitions for custody of the child.

The law normally gives a preference to a natural parent over anyone else in granting custody. However, the ultimate standard is what is in the best interests of the child.

You should consult an attorney immediately. Find one who does a lot of Juvenile Court work.

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Answered on 3/30/01, 1:45 pm
Lisa Lane McDevitt McDevitt Law Office

Re: Foster Parents

In any custody case the court looks to determine what is in the best interest of the child. There is a legal presumption that it is in the best interest of the child to award custody to the parents. However, this presumption can be rebutted by clear and convincing evidence, and custody may be awarded to any other party with a legitimate interest in the child. It will help your case that you have cared for this child for the last 11 months while the father denied the paternity of the child. You could also argue that the child has formed a bond with you while or she has never bonded with the father. Also, gather information (i.e. evidence) of the father's life-style, home environment, ability to financially support the child, history of violence/aggression, etc. Basically, gather any and all information that shows why the child is better off with you and worse off in his custody!

If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to call my VA office at 703-598-9220 or my MD office at 301-652-0663.

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Answered on 3/30/01, 3:00 pm


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