Legal Question in Family Law in Virginia
Grandparents rights after stepparent adoption
My 9 year older was adopted by my husband when she was 4 years old. Her birth father willingly signed over his parental rights and consented to the adoption. He had no contact with her after the adoption, and he passed away 3 years ago. His mother has continued to see my daughter regularly, although she has recently started to give us problems. The visitation order states ''visitation...at reasonable times as agreeable upon both parties'' which has ended up being every other weekend. Due to the lack of interest in such frequent visits on my daughter's behalf and due to the negative situations that have recently came about I have told her grandmother she could see her only 1 weekend per month, or she may call and see her any time as long as the child wants to go. She is now angry and threatens to take us back to court. Does she still have any legal rights since my husband adopted my daughter? Would the judge order me to give her every other weekend even if my daughter wishes not to go so often?
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1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: Grandparents rights after stepparent adoption
Your question falls within a developing area of Virginia law. Recent decisions of the Virginia Court of Appeals and the Virginia Supreme Court seem to say that, in an intact home with two parents, a court may only order visitation with a grandparent after a finding that failure to allow the visitation will harm the child. This would place the burden of proof of harm on the grandparents.
The state of the law is muddied because of language in the court decisions concerning families that are not "intact."
In my opinion, based on language contained in a Virginia Supreme Court decision and a recent US Supreme Court decision, you have a strong argument that ordering visitation with the grandmother in this case violates the constitutional rights that you and your husband have with regard to making decisions for your natural and his adopted daughter. However, it is likely that other attorneys or judges could argue that there are factual circumstances in your case that would justify a visitation order, especially since one currently exists.
I would strongly suggest that you seek the services of an attorney to present this argument to your court if this child's grandmother pursues the matter. I suspect that you could find one who would agree with my interpretation of the law. The trick, of course, is getting the judge to agree.
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