Legal Question in Family Law in Virginia

hi,hi, I am staying in USA with my husband, I am(my home or home after my marriage) from Hyd,india. got married almost 5 years before. now Planning to go to india and stay in india for long time, more than 6months to 1 year because my husband quarrels, and dont like to come to USA again, If I go to india i have to stay in my home, there are number of people in my home, my sister in law and her husband and her 3 children, these people have occupied our home and my mother in law is also supporting them. The house is like we have two apartments side by side with a wall in the middle of the house. The doors of the apartments are side by side. my sister-in-law family and all her children are staying in the other apartment, but in real terms there is nothing like two apartments. everyone wanders in both the apartments. my mother-in-law spends all the money for them by saying that they themselves are spending for their expenses. not even this, the apartment my sister-in-law is staying was purchased when my husband sent money for the apartment buying, both the apartments are on my mother in laws name only. the money for the 1st apartment also was sent by my husband only, so they paid the owing money to people from where they brought....when we visit India my sister-in-law used to harrass me when my husband is not at home and my mother-in-law too was harrassing me. My brother-in-law is earning for himself and he got married and he has one kid. he is earning for himself, he was also a kind of blaming nature, he always blames my name, and tells negative stories about me to other relatives ladies. He always says that he is gonna take another house for rent for themselves near his store, but when my husband asks about this he says that nothing is in our hands, when time comes it happens....

coming to my mother-in-law and sister-in-law, they wont let me to play with my baby, I fear that this time in the month of jan 2010 we are again going to india, and my husband will be back to USA after 3 weeks approximately. but I dont like to be back to USA as my husband wont leave me happily, he always quarrels with me on some issue, and I got tired with all his attitude. so I am planning to stay in India for long time with my baby.

My sister-in-law is making my mother-in-law to spend lot of money (my husband is sending all the savings to my mother-in-law) and one more thing is my sister-in-laws elder daughter(21years now) is born and brought up by my mother-in-law only. they are in a plan to spend for this girls marriage and what not , gold, car, dowry and from even a small expense, this and that, everything is spent by my mother -in-law only. my sister-in-law says that my mother-in-law owes lot of money to her so once that money is paid to her then she leaves the house, if someone asks that how much money they owe? means there is no answer,...as far my knowledge and my experience, my sister-in-law and mother-in-law are planning to stay each other by saying such lie. There is no enough space in home(in 2 apartments) if we go to india. my sister-in-law used to harrass me before, I am not sure how she is going to be this time. she used to harrass my co-sister also. but my co-sister is some what having her husband support so she is able to survive. let me tell you the number of people in my home, my mother-in-law, father-in-law, and brother-in-law, co-sister, brother-in-laws daughter, sister-in-law, sister-in-laws husband, sister-in-laws 3 children.

my husband wont talk to me properly , he wont communicate with me properly when we go india(even in USA also) , he tells to his sister or mother whatever he wants to convey to me. his sister and mother will come in between what ever is the matter. both these ladies will make my husband not to talk with me for longer number of days.

Is there anyway that I will send my sister-in-law out of our house. and my brother-in-law and my co-sister are ready and they themselves wont like to stay in this home, they like to go to another house as they are earning for themselves, and my brother-in-law is not even bearing any domestic expenses. they are just staying in the house because they fear that if they go out now they have to pay more rent.

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