Legal Question in Family Law in Virginia
Interrogatories
My husband and I are currently fighting for custody of his three children. We have a change in circumstance, the childrens mother remarried a man that dislikes the kids, and the kids feel mutually about him.
We have been served interrogatories that seemed pretty basic, not really tailored for a custody issue. We are meeting with our attorney next week and would like to put together interrogatories for the childrens mother asking pointed questions concerning the childrens desires to be moved. I do not want the questions to be turned around on us, an example of what I would like to have included is ''Have the children ever expressed a desire to live with their father ?'' is this acceptable ?
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Interrogatories
Your attorney is the best source of advice.
You have to think ahead about how the interrogatories will be used at trial. Generally speaking, you are not going to get the other side to admit any damaging information such as you described with interrogatories. Example: "Q: Have the children ever expressed a desire to live with their father?" "A: No." (If you are lucky) or "A: They hate being with him because all he does is sit around and drink beer and smoke marijuana all day."
Interrogatories are more useful for questions such as identifying the location of documentary evidence: "What is the name, address and telephone number of the person who prepares your tax returns?" Or limiting future responses to questions posed on the witness stand: "What are the names, addresses and telephone numbers of all persons whom you contend witnessed corporal punishment by the father?" This last one sets up the questioning at trial: "Q: Who witnessed this corporal punishment? A: Sheriff Smith and Bishop Curley. Q: Your honor, may I approach the witness? Is this your signature at the bottom of the Responses to Interrogatories? You did sign this under penalty of perjury, didn't you? Could you please read your answer to Interrogatory 23? A: Nobody."
Re: Interrogatories
The question is fine but you don't expect them to tell the truth do you? Whenever change of custody is motivated by children's desires there are several ways to get that evidence in. The best way is to have the court appoint a GUARDIAN AD LITEM for the children, that is they would have their own lawyer who would be able to present evidence on their behalf. Another way is to have the kids see a counselor and then the counselor can testify in court. The last way and least preferable is to have the children testify themselves.
Interrogatories just give a heads up about the evidence - they in and of themselves are not evidence.
Good luck