Legal Question in Family Law in Virginia
May need to Leave Marital Home
I have been married for over seven years. Throughout this period of time, I've had to deal with my husband having a chemical imbalance (depression), but at times refuses to take his medication. He feels he don't need it. During those times, he is verbally abusive to me and any of my family members. He is very dominate in the marriage. I'm considering moving out, but not sure what would happen if I leave the home. There are no children from this marriage. I am 57 years old, he is 60. He got fired from his job making over 100k in April 08 for creating a hostile environment. After not working for 4 months, he is now driving a school bus for a fraction of his previous salary. Would I be responsible for the bills or have to pay him alimony if I left. He won't discuss our problems, and currently I am getting the silent treatment. My husband just ruined my family Thanksgiving by acting mean and outspoken to me and my family. I don't know what my rights are, but I don't think I can live like this much longer. My family said they feel like they have to walk on egg shells just to be in my home. I'm so tired of dealing with this.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: May need to Leave Marital Home
You as well as your husband would be responsible for the family bills, but as to whether a court might order you to pay spousal support if you were to move out, would depend upon many factors, beginning with your current level of income versus that of your husband.