Legal Question in Family Law in Virginia
Do I have rights?
My daughter lives in VA, her mother closed the case 3 years ago and I continue to pay child support on a monthley bases but I only get to see her 3 maybe 4 times a year now that she is in school....I spoke to her mother stating I wanted more time with my daughter or she gets less money....I also told I would be willing to go back to court for better visiting rights. My question is this....what rights does a father have if he's a good father takes care of his kids but doesn't get to see them grow up? Do I have a leg to stand on? Or would I just loose in court like all good dads in this nation?
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Do I have rights?
You should consult with a Virginia lawyer to discuss the application of the law to the facts of your particular situation. The following is general legal information on the factors a judge will consider when deciding a custody or visitation case. Your obligation to pay child support is not dependent upon the amount of visitation you have.
� 20-124.3. Best interests of the child; visitation. � In determining best interests of a child for purposes of determining custody or visitation arrangements including any pendente lite orders pursuant to � 20-103, the court shall consider the following:
1. The age and physical and mental condition of the child, giving due consideration to the child's changing developmental needs;
2. The age and physical and mental condition of each parent;
3. The relationship existing between each parent and each child, giving due consideration to the positive involvement with the child's life, the ability to accurately assess and meet the emotional, intellectual and physical needs of the child;
4. The needs of the child, giving due consideration to other important relationships of the child, including but not limited to siblings, peers and extended family members;
5. The role that each parent has played and will play in the future, in the upbringing and care of the child;
6. The propensity of each parent to actively support the child's contact and relationship with the other parent, including whether a parent has unreasonably denied the other parent access to or visitation with the child;
7. The relative willingness and demonstrated ability of each parent to maintain a close and continuing relationship with the child, and the ability of each parent to cooperate in and resolve disputes regarding matters affecting the child;
8. The reasonable preference of the child, if the court deems the child to be of reasonable intelligence, understanding, age and experience to express such a preference;
9. Any history of family abuse as that term is defined in � 16.1-228. If the court finds such a history, the court may disregard the factors in subdivision 6; and
10. Such other factors as the court deems necessary and proper to the determination.
Re: Do I have rights?
A father like yourself has the right to go back to court and ask that either the current visitation arrangement be enforced or that it be expanded to include visitation arrangements that were not allowed under the previous order.