Legal Question in Elder Law in Washington

Re: Getting POA against Mother's Wishes

Ms. Powell is correct.

If your mother in law lives in Pierce, Kitsap, Mason, or Thurston County, I can apply for a guardianship for her and explain everything to you.

I am out of state for a few days, but you can write to me at [email protected]

In the meantime, it sounds to me as though your mother in law is in at least the early stages of dementia. Someone needs to go to a doctor with her - a doctor who is familiar with Alzheimers and other types of dementia. Don't wait - there are drugs available now that can slow down the effects of dementia.

Depending on the situation, a court can appoint a family member, friend, or professional guardian to help with both personal and financial issues.

I'd be happy to call you if you provide a phone number, or we can communicate by email.

Merry Kogut

[email protected]

www.keypeninsulalaw.com

Re: Getting POA against Mother's Wishes

You cannot effectively ask a person whose competency you question to sign a durable power of attorney. It is too late. If she cannot care for herself, a guardianship might be the only solution.

Best thing to do is to talk to Margaret Dore in Seattle. Her practice is focussed on elder law, and she can help you. You can look her up at margaretdore.com.

If your mother in law is at risk, please contact Adult Protective Services. This is similar to Child Protective Services, and contact information is on line. They can check on your mother in law and determine whether she is safe on her own right now, or not.

Please call Ms. Dore for further explanation. Hope this helps. Elizabeth Powell