Legal Question in Family Law in Washington

Re: Child Custody

You are in King County - go to metrokc.gov, look for the "court" links and go to the domestic violence page.

All you have to do is ask. These people are ready willing and able to help you set up a plan and figure out what is best for you and your children.

Notarized statements aren't binding on courts. It won't do you any useful good, and it will tip your hand.

Just go talk to the DV advocates. Seriously.

Elizabeth Powell

Re: Child Custody

If you are in an abusive relationship you need to contact the closest domestic violence hotline (look for links on metrokc.gov) or go to the courthouse (the Regional Justice Center) and go to the DV center.

All you have to do is say, "I need help" and they will help you. The biggest step is admitting to yourself that you need help. Once you have made that decision, the rest will follow. I know that is a leap of faith but it is true.

Notarized statements are simply not the point. What is that going to do? If you are worried that he's going to take the kids or have you arrested if you "take" the kids, your relationship is pretty disfunctional.

I wish you all the best - but you have to take that first step. The DV advocates can create a safety plan, they can find you a shelter, they can make sure you and the kids are safe so you can rebuild your life without risk or fear.

Elizabeth Powell