Legal Question in Family Law in Washington
Two Children - One w/Mom, One w/Dad
My two boys (12 & 13) have lived with dad since they were little. My 13 year old has since moved in with me (his decision). We have not put together a new parenting plan yet, but dad has basically said he doesn't want to do the ''every other weekend'' thing. He also says that it is my sons place to say when he wants to see his dad, and that it is his decision. I basically would love for dad to disappear because he is not a good influence for my boys. (I would love for my youngest to come live with me, when he is ready). What is the best route I can take to protect my son, legally? Dad had at one point (before he took custody) asked a judge if he could sign over his parental rights. Maybe I should see if he will do it now and let my new husband adopt him.
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: Two Children - One w/Mom, One w/Dad
You should petition for an agreed modification of the parenting plan (and appropriate adjustment to the order of support). As to asking your husband to relinquish the parent-child relationship, you will have to exercise your judgment on that. I can only tell you how it is done, not whether you should do it.