Legal Question in Family Law in Washington

Re: Court is tommrow and I have no Lawyer!

Your asking for procedural help, but you do not state what county you are in, when the case was filed, whether (and when you were served) and what the hearing is about that you are appearing for. Without knowing where your case is (county, timeline, procedurally) your procedural problems can't really be addressed. You state that you can't fill out a response, but you don't say why. You say you wanted to settle out of court, but then you say you may refuse to grant the divorce. You can't effectively refuse to give him a divorce, but you can force it to a trial, if you have material issues of fact, but if you have not file a Response he may get a default judgment.