Legal Question in Wills and Trusts in Washington

Cremated Remains

My mother�s ashes were mixed with

those of her 3rd Husband, Tom. Tom

out lived my mom for 3 years and

had no children of his own. When he

died the entire estate, including my

mom�s ashes and the family home

was left to my sister and I, which

may have generated some ill will.

Tom�s sister has refused to give us

the ashes or disclose where they are

spread. The cremation was paid for

out of the estate. The ashes were in

my mother's home, and were taken

by his sister under the pretense of

taking them to the mortuary not to

transfer ownership. The two families

have been fighting over this for

nearly ten years. I really just want to

know where my mom�s remains are,

or were spread. Do I have any legal

recourse to force them to tell us?


Asked on 4/03/09, 7:51 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys

Christopher Steuart IT Forensics, Inc.

Re: Cremated Remains

It is unclear if this is a WA or NY probate question. If it is a WA question, the ashes could be part of the estate (under the residuary clause) if they were not expressly addressed in the will. You could take this into probate to address it. The other alternative is to file a separate civil suit on the theft. It could theoretically be a criminal matter, but most police departments and prosecutor's offices are under serious budget constraints and probably won't do much with this matter.

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Answered on 4/06/09, 4:57 pm


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