Legal Question in Family Law in Iowa

If you have a power of attorney that information should be available to you. On the other hand it sounds as if you do not or you would have told me. Simply stated it's her money and whoever she chose to have control over her assets-likely her husband in the absence of a choice. I fail to see where you have standing here. You might be able to get a conservator appointed to manage her affairs if you believe that waste is occurring but it's a tough slog and it doesn't come for free.