Legal Question in Civil Litigation in South Carolina
alienation of affection
I had dated a guy for about a year and did not know he was married. I dated him in Virginia and he lives in South Carolina (where his wife was), he was military. Now, he came out and said he was married and since then got separated and we still talk and now the wife wants to sue me for alienation of affection when I didn't know he was married when I entered the relationship from the get go and now he is legally separated. Can she really sue me for alienation of affection?
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: alienation of affection
No. She can't sue you. Va. Code � 8.01-220 abolished such actions. The Va Code section is available online at http://leg1.state.va.us/cgi-bin/legp504.exe?000+cod+8.01-220. Good luck.
Re: alienation of affection
First of all, I doubt that this relates to SC
law. Since you dated him in Virginia, I think
that Virginia law would have to apply even if
she sued you in a S.C. court. Also, it would be
challenging for her to sue you in S.C. because
presumably S.C. would not have jurisdiction over
you (unless you regularly go there, have property
there, or committed some part of the alleged
wrong in S.C.). I suppose she could try to say
that you harmed the S.C. marriage, and thus
caused a harm in S.C., but the actions were still
in Virginia, and since you did not know about
the S.C. marriage, you had no intention of acting
in S.C. SO I think a South Carolina action
would fail for lack of jurisdiction. You would
have to hire a local attorney to make a "special
appearance" in which you do not consent to
jursidcition by showing up, but argue the lack of
jurisdiction.
I can only comment on Virginia law, but I think
that Virginia law applies:
First, the fact that you did not know about
the S.C. marriage would absolutely defeat a
cause of action for alienation of affection. The
essence of alienation of affection is that one
knowingly wins a spouse away from the other
spouse. Unless you knew of the marriage, it
would be impossible for you to have committed
that legal wrong.
Second, the tort of alienation of affection most
definitely existed historically at common law,
but it has been essentially abolished as
obsolete and outdated. As my colleague pointed
out, it has been abolished by statute.