Legal Question in Family Law in Washington

Can I see my Kids

I do pay my child support. I am behind but I am currently making payments. My ex girlfriend will not let me see my three kids. We were never married. I want to see my kids. I have been in trouble with the law but I am doing everything I am required to do. I am a felon. Someone told me that because I am a felon I will not be able to see my kids and I have to go by what my ex says. There are no custody papers, no parenting plans. Is this true? Because I am a felon I can't see my kids?


Asked on 7/21/04, 7:58 am

2 Answers from Attorneys

Amir John Showrai The Pacific Law Firm, PLLC

Re: Can I see my Kids

No, it is not true that you cannot see your kids because you are an ex-felon. However, depending on what you were convicted of, that may prevent you from seeing the kids. For example, if you are a convicted sex offender, especially for crimes involving children, then, yes you are likely to be prevented from seeing the kids.

On the other hand, you mention that there is no parenting plan or any other documents, so how are you behind in child support? Is this a support amount that you and your ex-girlfriend have agreed that you would pay her?

What you need to do is bring an action to establish a parenting plan so that a court will issue it as a judgment which is then binding. From there on, your ex and you must follow it strictly.

At the same time, you should be aware that the court will also order child support payments, and may not count your payments made as payments for the period of time since you've been apart.

I highly recommend that you seek a family law attorney immediately to resolve this situation.

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Answered on 7/21/04, 6:21 pm
Ryan West Law Office of Ryan J. West

Re: Can I see my Kids

Just to add to the previous reply, I would agree that the problem seems to be that you have not entered a parenting plan for your children, not that you are a felon. Similarly, visitation with your children is not a "pay for play" system, in which your visitation can be taken away by the other parent because you are behind on your support payments.

What you need to do is establish paternity for your children (if you haven't already) and seek to have a parenting plan entered that grants you residential time with them.

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Answered on 7/21/04, 8:41 pm


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