Legal Question in Family Law in Massachusetts
Should I do nothing?
I have a son, about 1 year old. I live and work in a city other than where he lives, I drive in to see him twice a week, taking him 2 days a week and overnight once a week. Even though I love my little boy, this is the best I can do, as I cannot transfer my gov't job, and I am in the Reserve also, which takes a lot more of my time. My son lives with his mother and her boyfriend (long story, she decided after she was pregnant I wasn't the right guy). Every time I see my son's mother, she tells me that her boyfriend is spending more time with my son than either me or her, and he is ''doing me a favor'' by taking care of him. The guy seems a decent guy, my son is very well cared for and is a happy camper every time I have him. If I could take my son more than I take him now, I would certainly do it. His mother has mentioned several times that I should move closer to where she lives to see him, but I told her I'm not a babysitter, and I need to make money to support all of us. If she continues to tell me that her b/f is taking care of my son more than she is, would I have a chance at custody in court? I'm happy with the way things are, but I don't like being told someone is spending more time with my son. Any advice?
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Should I do nothing?
From what you say, she is playing head games with you. The issue is more of an emotional issue, unless she is telling your child something bad about you.
Re: Should I do nothing?
How is it that the boyfriend spends more time with you son? Where is his mother? She lives in the same household! As the prior attorney stated, it does sound like she is playing head games.
On another note, is it possible to take your son every other weekend for overnight? Perhaps Friday night until Sunday morning? This may be helpful for your son. Although, the mother may have other motives, think of it as a benefit for your son.
Good luck! Maria Murber
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