Legal Question in Family Law in South Carolina

I have custody of my brother and my mother is taking me back to court. I've had him for four years now. It is about more visitation and getting a restraining order against my fiance. My fiance lives with me and they say it isn't a moral environment for the child. I was thinking about getting married early so they couldn't say anything. The only problem I have about it is that he does have a bit of a background. He and some friends stole some money about 5 years ago. I think he is considered a felon, but it was a non-violent crime. He was young and being stupid. He is off probation, he even got off early because he paid it early. Would getting married hinder us instead of help us?


Asked on 9/04/12, 5:00 am

1 Answer from Attorneys

Barbara Strowd Barbara A. Strowd, Attorney at Law

If your mother is seeking a restraining order against overnight guests of the opposite sex, it is almost certain that the court will grant the restraint. I am assuming it wasn't in the custody order. In South Carolina it is actually illegal to live together in a romantic relationship without being married. Marrying your fiance would correct that problem. Is your mother asking for a restraint against overnight guests of the opposite sex or is she asking for a restraint against having your fiance around at all? If she is seeking the latter, she will have a more difficult time getting the restraint against the fiance. She will have to prove that your fiance's presence is detrimental to your brother. Now, whether your finance's background will be a problem is difficult to say. It depends on the circumstances of the crime and whether there are other problems in his background, among other things. The judge will consider many factors in determining the best interest of your brother. Has your fiance truly just made one mistake in his past and has he completely turned his life around since that crime? If so, then marrying him may be the best move but there are no guarantees. I would suggest that you meet with a local family law attorney for at least a consultation. Sometimes these things can be worked out by agreement and having an attorney would certainly help facilitate an agreement.

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Answered on 9/12/12, 9:07 am


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