Legal Question in Family Law in Washington
paternal rights
My daughter is now 8 months old & her biological father has only seen her once (at my relentless request). We were never married, live in different states & he is not on the birth certificate, but a DNA test has been performed confirming paternity. He was not around for the pregnancy or birth & became angry when I filed paperwork to establish child support. I thought it would be better for our daughter if he were in her life, but he is proving to be further impossible & not actually someone I want to influence her life. What precautions can I take in protecting ourselves in the future & is it still possible to relinquish his parental rights, even though child support paperwork has been filed?
What rights does he currently have?
**need legal advice**
1 Answer from Attorneys
Re: paternal rights
At this point, relinquishing his parental rights voluntarily is not possible unless someone steps in to adopt your daughter (such as if you get married and the new step-father wishes to adopt). The reason you can't relinquish without an adopting parent is because that would only leave you financially responsible and if you fall short, your child will be dependent upon the state (read as taxpayers) for help.
However, you can seek a parenting plan that limits the bio-dad's involvement or visitation with the child. Dad's rights in general are to decision making and visitation with the child. The degree to which he has either of those things will depend on knowing more details of your case.
If you need legal advice, as you say, which I agree, you do, then you need to consult with a family law attorney in your area. I am located in Seattle and handle cases all over the Western part of Washington from Whatcom County down to King County. If that does not work for you, I can always refer you to someone in other counties.